BACKGROUND THEORY. Depth Analysis Versus Ego Analysis. TRADITIONAL APPROACHES TO COUPLES THERAPY. The Psychoanalytic Approach. The Systems Approach. The Behavior Therapy Approach. SPECIAL CHARACTERISTICS OF MY APPROACH. The Inevitability of Fantasy and Alienation. Love and Compromise. An Individual Oriented Systems Approach. An Insight Approach to Couples Therapy. Resistance and Disqualification. MAJOR FORMS OF INTERVENTION. Clarifying Each Partner's Position. Taking Each Partner's Side: Paired Binds Interpretations. Developing a Shared Perspective. APPLICATION TO CLASSIC PARTNER TYPES. Withdrawn Partners. Angry Partners. Demanding--Withdrawn Partners. THE ULTIMATE EXPRESSION OF MY APPROACH. Incorporating Problems into Relationships. Incorporating Fantasies into Relationships. References. Index.