Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Interpersonal Problems: Using Mindfulness, Acceptance, and Schema Awareness to Change Interpersonal Behaviors

Author(s): MATTHEW MCKAY

ACT Acceptance & Commitment Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Interpersonal Problems presents a three-phase professional protocol therapists can use with clients who experience interpersonal disruptions and repeatedly fall into unhealthy patterns in their relationships with friends, family members, coworkers, and romantic partners. These clients may blame others, withdraw when threatened, react defensively in conflicts, act with contempt, continually find fault with others, or have a deep-seated sense of distrust. Most often, these forms of social dysfunction are rooted in maladaptive schemas, that is, unhelpful strongly held beliefs that clients may rely on to avoid feelings of inadequacy, rejection, and pain.
This professional book presents a complete acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) approach to working with these clients and helping them overcome their maladaptive social tendencies. It examines ten core schemas and describes the accompanying avoidance strategies that damage clients' relationships. First, clients will learn creative hopelessness and practice mindfulness skills. Second, clients examine what they value in their relationships and what they hope to gain from them, and translate their values into clear intentions for acting differently in the future. Lastly, clients face the barriers standing between them and values-based behavior in their relationships. By learning to defuse from schema-influenced thinking, clients can eventually overcome the patterns of avoidance that hold them back.
Appendix I of the book examines the research design and treatment outcome data for this protocol. Appendix II offers a complete acceptance and commitment therapy for interpersonal disorders group protocol.


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‘Relying on a storytelling clinical voice, the authors articulate an innovative approach to applying ACT technology to interpersonal problems using the language of schemas as a heuristic to identify historic thoughts, feelings, and action urges that are sources of pain and unlikely to go away. The book describes a step-by-step treatment approach wherein the clients learn to recognize old moves to avoid the emotional pain associated with these schemas and discover how to stop these behaviours that create unnecessary interpersonal suffering. It includes clear descriptions of interventions, with samples of therapist-client dialogue and handouts to use with clients. ‘ -Jacqueline Pistorello, PhD, co-author of Finding Life Beyond Trauma

Matthew McKay is a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, CA. He has authored and co-authored numerous books, including The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Self-Esteem, Thoughts and Feelings, When Anger Hurts, and ACT on Life Not on Anger. His books combined have sold more than 2.5 million copies. McKay received his Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology. In private practice, he specialises in the cognitive behavioural treatment of anxiety and depression.

General Fields

  • : 9781608822898
  • : NHP
  • : New Harbinger
  • : 01 June 2012
  • : 01 January 2013
  • : books

Special Fields

  • : MATTHEW MCKAY
  • : Paperback / softback
  • : 616.8914
  • : VF