A Cup of Water Under My Bed: A Memoir

Author(s): Daisy Hernandez

Biography

A coming-of-age memoir by a Colombian-Cuban woman about shaping lessons from home into a new, queer life In this lyrical, coming-of-age memoir, Daisy Hernandez chronicles what the women in her Cuban-Colombian family taught her about love, money, and race. Her mother warns her about "envidia "and men who seduce you with pastries, while one tia bemoans that her niece is turning out to be "una india" instead of an American. Another auntie instructs that when two people are close, they are bound to become like "una y mugre," fingernails and dirt, and that no, Daisy s father is not godless. He s simply praying to a candy dish that can be traced back to Africa. These lessons rooted in women s experiences of migration, colonization, "y carino" define in evocative detail what it means to grow up female in an immigrant home. In one story, Daisy sets out to defy the dictates of race and class that preoccupy her mother and tias, but dating women and transmen, and coming to identify as bisexual, leads her to unexpected questions. In another piece, NAFTA shuts local factories in her hometown on the outskirts of New York City, and she begins translating unemployment forms for her parents, moving between English and Spanish, as well as private and collective fears. In prose that is both memoir and commentary, Daisy reflects on reporting for the "New York Times "as the paper is rocked by the biggest plagiarism scandal in its history and plunged into debates about the role of race in the newsroom. A heartfelt exploration of family, identity, and language, "A Cup of Water Under My Bed"is ultimately a daughter s story of finding herself and her community, and of creating a new, queer life."


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Warm and thoughtful, Hernandez writes with cleareyed compassion about living, and redefining success, at the intersection of social, ethnic and racial difference. Personal storytelling at its most authentic and heartfelt. "Kirkus Reviews" Gorgeously written from start to finish. "Boston Globe" Journalist, feminist, and first-time memoirist Hernandez presents a coming-of-age story that dives into the complexities of language, sexuality, and class. An accessible, honest look at the often heart-wrenching effects of intergenerational tension on family ties. "Booklist" This book is a compelling glimpse into the life of a young Latina struggling to hold onto her background and make her way in a world she often finds difficult to embrace. Hernandez's use of language is often poetic, especially when intermingling Spanish and English, with the cultural tones of each. "Windy City Times" By the end of this beautiful book, Daisy Hernandez, a queer American Latina, has threaded Spanish and English together to create an inimitable new language in a brave and brilliant negotiation of a multilingual world. "Los Angeles Review of Books" With wit and respectful grace, Hernandez shares stories of love for family, of strong (despite herself) roots, and of assimilation and claiming who you are without losing who you were. "Dallas Voice" During a time in history when so much is said about women of color, working-class folks, immigrants, Latinas, poor people, and "los depreciados" but seldom from them, Hernandez writes with honesty, intelligence, tenderness, and love. I bow deeply in admiration and gratitude. Sandra Cisneros, author of "The" "House on Mango Street" "" A striking and illuminating memoir of stark beauty that challenges our notions of identity and feminine power; absolutely riveting and unforgettable. Patricia Engel, author of "It s Not Love, It s Just Paris" Hernandez writes with grace and clarity about the singular joys and unique pains of growing up in two worlds. A marriage of power and poetry. Laila Lalami, author of "Hope and Other Dangerous Pursuits" Hernandez is a stone-cold truth teller, and her talent is eclipsed only by her fearlessness. If this debut is a sign of what s to come, plan to have your heart and head broken wide open. Again and again. JohnMurillo, author of"Up Jump the Boogie""

Daisy Hernandez is the coeditorof "Colonize This! Young Women of Color on Today s Feminism"and the former editor of "ColorLines" magazine. She speaks at colleges and conferences about feminism, race, and media representations, and her writing has appeared in the "New York Times," "Ms." magazine, "CultureStrike," "In These Times," "Bellingham Review," "Fourth Genre," and "Hunger Mountain," and on NPR s"All Things Considered.""

General Fields

  • : 9780807062920
  • : Beacon Press
  • : Beacon Press
  • : 23 September 2015
  • : United States
  • : books

Special Fields

  • : Daisy Hernandez
  • : Paperback
  • : 306.7663092
  • : 200