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Love Warrior: A Memoir by Glennon Doyle

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Category: Biography & Memoir | Series: Oprah's Book Club

#1 New York Times BestsellerOprah's Book Club 2016 Selection "Riveting...a worthy investment...this book has real wisdom."--New York Times Book Review "A book with so much painful truth packed into its pages that every person who's ever married or plans to marry should really give it a read." -- Chica go Tribune "Provocative... I adore her honesty, her vulnerability, and her no-nonsense wisdom, and I know you will, too." -- Oprah Winfrey "This memoir isn't really about Glennon rebuilding her relationship with her husband; it is about Glennon rebuilding her relationship with herself. Utterly refreshing and... badass."-- Bustle.com A memoir of betrayal and self-discovery by bestselling author Glennon Doyle, Love Warrior is a gorgeous and inspiring account of how we are all born to be warriors: strong, powerful, and brave; able to confront the pain and claim the love that exists for us all. This chronicle of a beautiful, brutal journey speaks to anyone who yearns for deeper, truer relationships and a more abundant, authentic life. ...Show more

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How Can I Ever Trust You Again? : Infidelity : From Discovery to Recovery in Seven Steps by Andrew G. Marshall

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There are few things in life more traumatic than discovering that your partner is having an affair. You are not only coping with the pain and anger but also the sense that your partner is a stranger. How could someone you love, and thought that you knew, treat you in this way? How can you ever trust you r partner again? Don't panic. Millions upon millions of ordinary men and women have trodden the same path and come out the other end with not only their love restored but a significantly stronger and better relationship. Whether you are the discoverer of the affair or whether you were discovered, Marshall offers guidance and support, and explains: the seven stages that couples move through from discovery to recovery; what makes people more vulnerable to affairs; the eight types of affairs and how understanding your partner's affair is key to deciding whether you should stay or go; how to stop your imagination running wild and your brain from going into meltdown; and, why some couples emerge stronger and why others get derailed from the recovery process. With over 25 years' experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on hundreds of case studies, and provides sensible, compassionate and practical advice. ...Show more

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The Truth About Cheating by M.Gary Neuman

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This book presents an unprecedented look at the real reasons for male marital infidelity, and what might prevent it. Few events cause as much turmoil in a marriage as infidelity. It can shatter trust and breed insecurity and resentment from which some relationships never recover. People who think it won 't happen to them are hit that much harder when it does. Why are men unfaithful? Can infidelity be prevented? Can a wife single-handedly ensure that her husband won't stray? What do men say they're getting from their mistresses that they're missing at home? Do a man's friends have anything to do with his willingness to cheat?While there are books that have explored the feelings and experiences of wives whose husbands have been unfaithful, the question of why men cheat and whether it is because of sexual dissatisfaction, emotional dissatisfaction, or something else has remained largely unexamined. At last, "Lessons from Cheating Husbands" presents many fascinating and provocative answers.In this book, experienced family counselor Gary Neuman shares the revealing and surprising findings of a cutting-edge research study in which he interviewed and studied close to 100 men from 48 states who have physically cheated on their wives. ...Show more

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Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity by Mark Chamberlain & Geoff Steurer

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A pornography addiction can feel like real infidelity to a spouse. There's nothing virtual about the damage done to a relationship, and the wounds are reopened each time a relapse is discovered. As tough as it is to overcome this addictive habit, healing a marriage damaged by pornography is even harder. For spouses, it's not enough for their partners to simply stop looking at porn. They need healing themselves. Some couples separate and divorce. Others stay together, but the strain of unresolved feelings takes a distinct toll. Many wonder, "Can our marriage heal? Will we ever feel close again?" Love You, Hate the Porn shows couples how to identify and address vulnerabilities in their relationship. Offers healing advice for spouses. Provides help for the struggling partner to avoid relapse. Focuses on how to make the marriage relationship stronger than it was before. ...Show more

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Surprised by Love: One Couple's Journey from Infidelity to True Love by Dr Jay Kent-Ferraro and Julie Kent-Ferraro

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Through the harsh realities of infidelity and destruction... to awakening, change, and restoration. In compelling prose, readers are drawn into an intimate encounter with the harsh realities of infidelity, of how and why it occurs and led transparently through a pathway of awakening. Decisions are made to change, and recreate, and ultimately a transformation of a broken marriage ending in divorce becomes a new relationship. Readers are inspired with hope and possibility. Life altering truths about love and modern marraige including the gifts and hidden dangers are explored. This is anchored in the compelling story of two people who choose to triumph over their individual and relationship failures. Plus, a step by step guide to dealing with infidelity and restoring a relationship completes this tale of love lost and love restored. ...Show more

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A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction : A Step-by-Step Plan to Rebuild Trust and Restore Intimacy by Paldrom Collins

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Like other psychiatric disorders, sexual addiction is a condition that affects peoples' relationships with others as much as it affects their own mental state. Individuals suffering from sexual addiction typically pursue sex through any means possible and often engage in risky forms of sexual activity such as exhibitionism, promiscuous sex with multiple partners, online sex, etc. It's easy to see how a couple's relationship may be challenged by the manifestations and reality of a disorder like this one. A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction discusses common relationship issues within the context of sexual addiction and provides the reader with exercises, information, and advice on the following topics: Trust; Communication; Healthy sexuality & sexual behaviors; and, Family. By understanding the reality of sexual addiction and what it means for a relationship, couples will be able to better relate to each other and plan for a successful future. ...Show more

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Mating in Captivity: Sex, Lies and Domestic Bliss by Esther Perel

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Category: Sexuality

A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home. One of the world's most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love. ...Show more

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Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move on -- Together or Apart by Douglas K. Snyder, Donala H Baucom, Kristina Coop Gordon PhD

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In the aftermath of infidelity, couples often struggle with emotional turmoil and sometimes make decisions they later regret. Getting Past the Affair helps them overcome the initial shock, understand what happened and why, and think clearly about their best interests before they act. Based on the combin ed insight of leading marital therapists and researchers, this unique program encourages couples and individuals to take things one step at a time, whether they stay together or part ways. Research shows that roughly two-thirds of those who use the approach find it significantly beneficial, making it the only program to have been empirically tested - and proven - to help partners restore trust and rebuild their marriage after an affair. Even in cases where reconciliation is impossible, this compassionate, insightful book emphasizes ways for readers to recover personally and avoid emotional scars so they can pursue healthier relationships in the future. "A worthy and important contribution to understanding and helping couples face one of the worst problems in a marriage."--John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work ...Show more

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The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs by Peggy Vaughan

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One of the most valuable survival guides for men or women recovering from a partner's affair. FEATURED ON OPRAH, 48 HOURS, CNN, FOX NEWS, AND IN USA TODAY In this landmark book, Peggy Vaughan helps us to understand the stages of suspicion, confrontation, and the healing process necessary to recover, i ncluding rebuilding self-esteem, the marriage/divorce dilemma, and seeking professional help. Packed with practical, time-tested advice and successful strategies, this authoritative guide reveals: You are not alone—estimates are that at least 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an extramarital affair. People from all walks of life have affairs—devoted parents, religious individuals, regardless of income or social class. Our society contributes to the prevalence of affairs. An affair does not mean the end of a marriage. Recovery is fueled by honest, open discussion of the affair. Substantiated by case studies, ongoing research, and the author's own experience, this updated third edition includes information on the role of the Internet in relationships, shares the words of others who are recovering from affairs, and describes the six-step program for establishing communication between partners that can actually prevent affairs. ...Show more

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The Porn Trap : The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography by Wendy Maltz

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While people typically snicker at porn addiction, it's effects can be devastating, often leaving addicts with ruined lives, and sometimes in jail. The Porn Trap is the first book to examine the full range of pornography-related problems, aimed at the recreational 'dabbler' all the way to the compulsive addict, as well as partners of addicts. In an authoritative, nonjudgmental style, sex therapists Wendy and Larry Maltz combine an understanding of porn - a definition and description, its attractions and effects, its history, and the industry that creates it - with simple but effective healing strategies. It will help readers to: identify and evaluate the impact of porn; decide when it's time to quit using porn; stop using porn and never go back; rebuild self-esteem and restore personal integrity; develop a thriving and satisfying sexual life without porn; strengthen a couple relationship harmed by porn use; and, facilitate healing when someone you love has a porn problem. Review: "An extremely helpful and much needed resource for a very destructive addiction. The Porn Trap includes clear and practical guidance for healing the emptiness caused by porn. I highly recommend it." -- Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want and Receiving Love ...Show more

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Vow: A Memoir of Marriage and Other Affairs by Wendy Plump

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Category: Infidelity

There are so many ways to find out. From a mobile phone. From a bank account. From some weird supermarket encounter. One morning in early January 2005, Wendy Plump's neighbour came over to tell her that her husband was having an affair. The news hit her with an almost audible click. It was not a shock. Actually, it explained quite a lot. What she was not prepared for however was the revelation that he had an eight-month-old son living within a mile of their family home. Monogamy is one of the most important vows we make in our marriages. Yet it is a rare spouse who does not face some level of temptation in their married life. The discovery of her husband's second family followed betrayals of Wendy's own, earlier in the marriage, and prompted her to explore the wreckage of her relationship head-on - from the view of both the betrayer and the betrayed. In this compelling memoir, Wendy Plump looks at the ordeal of Finding Out, the recovery, the ebb and flow of passion, the patterns of adultery, the undeniable allure of illicit attraction, the lovers, the lies and the alibis. Frank, intelligent and important, Vow takes you under the covers. It will transform your understanding of fidelity and commitment forever. ...Show more

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Intimacy After Infidelity: How To Rebuild and Affair-Proof Your Marriage by Steven D. Solomon and Lorie J. Teagno

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While trying to cope with the pain of knowing that their partners have cheated, victims of infidelity have to wrestle with two big questions: whether to stay in the relationship and, if they do stay, how to best prevent experiencing this kind of hurt ever again. In this book, two relationship experts of fer readers a new way of understanding the causes and types of infidelity and innovative new ways to "affair-proof" recovered or new relationships. The book begins with an overview of the phenomenon of infidelity and the way a long-term relationship develops over time. It presents a three-type model of intimacy and infidelity and analyses each. The authors include a discussion of how to evaluate a relationship for infidelity risks and how to choose a partner that is less likely to be unfaithful. 200 pp. ...Show more

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