This is the first and only book on the market that focuses solely on the hurting parent and not the errant child. It is strictly for parents, and written by a parent who has gone through the heartbreak of two children on drugs and has survived to write about it.
With a common sense approach, Rubin shows parents how to regain a footing in their own lives, and how to regain those elusive values called health and happiness. It also encourages a parent to give up the erroneous idea that the child's addiction is the parent's fault: the average parent is not, regardless of public opinion, the architect of the raging addict her or his child has become.
Includes: * actions parents can take when loyalty to their children becomes their own downfall * how parents who are sacrificial lambs thwart positive outcomes * how the recovery of the parent can inspire the recovery of the child * how to evaluate your mental, physical, emotional and financial health * how to set boundaries * how to deal with relatives who condemn you for your Tough Love methods * how to find the support groups * how to transform insane situations into sane ones One reading and the healing begins, because this book accompanies the parent every step of the way toward liberation.