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Psychotherapist Dina Bachelor Evan claims that 98 percent of the couples who come to her for counseling stay together, giving credence to the advice she offers in Break Up or Break Through.
Written specifically for a gay and lesbian audience, its rules for good relationships evoke universal self-help themes, such as respecting boundaries, overcoming personal limitations, and creating intimacy.
With its breathing exercises, "Spiritual Relationship Personal Inventory" tests, and upbeat chakra-talk, this volume should appe... read more

Powerful and moving accounts from young people, parents and teachers on the important support that families, schools and communities can provide when children come out.

In this first-of-its-kind book, Andrew Gottlieb, author of Out of the Twilight: Fathers of Gay Men Speak and Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers: Life Curves, continues his landmark exploration of family and sexuality. In Side by Side, 18 men and women from varying religious and economic backgrounds speak frankly about the experience of what it was like to find out about their sibling's homosexuality and how that knowledge affected them over time. Some of their perspectives may surprise you. Many will move you. What they have to ... read more

In his 2000 best-seller, Mr. Right Is Out There, Dr. Kenneth George helped countless gay men find long--lasting love. But now that they've found it, what do they do? In this comprehensive follow-up book, Dr. George offers, in the same warm and wise manner, guidelines for gay men on forming successful male couples. Included in this book are tips on: Negotiating changes rather than living with annoying differences. . Defining your relationship with a "job description." . Resolving conflicts rather than walking away. . Maintaini... read more

Dr. Richard L. Pimental-Habib's new book is filled with thought-provoking guidance and soul-searching wisdom. Having previously addressed issues of self-esteem and emotional well-being in the gay and lesbian community in Empowering the Tribe, Dr. Pimental-Habib now provides gay men and lesbians with a blueprint for forming and cultivating meaningful and long-lasting relationships of all varieties. "Relationships provide the fabric and richness of our lives. They act as organic mirrors reflecting the qualities of who we are to othe... read more

Bi Men is a lively collection of moving personal essays from bisexual men and those who love them, exploring what it means to be bisexual in today's monosexually oriented society. Bisexual and bi-curious men will find comfort and camaraderie in these stories about coming out, its impact on family and marriage, evolving perspectives on bisexuals within the LGBT community, and the building of acceptance and affirmation for bisexuals. Each story is told in the honest words of bisexuals that confirm the validity of their place in t... read more

The Bisexual Option explores bisexuality, explains the bisexual, and explodes myths surrounding this large "unseen" segment of the population. Now in its second edition, this intriguing book gives an overview of bisexuality. As there is still no book that covers the subject like this one, it is must reading for establishing a contemporary view of bisexuality and those committed to a bisexual lifestyle. Fritz Klein, an experienced psychiatrist and expert in bisexuality and sexual orientation, explains the concept and the variabl... read more

Each relationship is as individual as the men who are involved. Rather than rely on a one-size-fits-all approach to relationship success, Dr. Jeffrey Chernin helps each of us to acquire a better understanding of ourselves and how we engage in intimate relationships. In this warm and compassionate guide, Chernin helps us answer the questions we long to answer: How can I build a long-lasting partnership? Why am I afraid to get closer? How can I open myself to deeper, more intimate communication? How can I put an end to ongoin... read more

Learn to recognize and resolve communication problems common to gay male relationships. Man Talk presents effective techniques to help gay couples communicate better on the way to enjoying a fulfilling relationship. This practical guide from the author of Affirmative Gay Relationships examines common problems that create communication difficulties and offers straightforward, easy-to-use strategies for understanding feelings, resolving arguments, expressing anger, understanding nonverbal communication, improving listening skills, e... read more

Sexy and provocative, this is your one-stop guide to gay male sex. Lavishly illustrated and packed with advice and information on relationships, gay image, coming out and mental well-being, Ultimate Gay Sex is the most up-to-date gay sex manual on the market. All the lowdown on health issues as well as gay sex practices, sexual tastes and erotica, makes this essential bedtime reading! First published 2004.

Do you have questions? This book has the answers -- direct, no nonsense, to the point -- from relationships and sex to politics and marriage. For Eric Marcus, no question is too inflammatory or too stupid, because there's no such thing as a dumb question. How can you tell if your child is gay? What did Jesus say about homosexuals? Can prayer "cure" lesbians and gay men? Are gay soldiers bad soldiers? Can gay people get married? Who plays the husband and who plays the wife? Do gay people want to destroy the American family?

With rates of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, and sexual problems at an all time high, Gay Sex, Gay Health is essential reading for all gay men, with informed advice on sexual, physical and emotional problems, including practising safe sex and taking responsibility for oneself. Serious and authoritative in tone but also upbeat and informal in style, the book also includes sections on gay sex and variations in sexual activities, recreational drugs associated with gay sex and up-to-date statistics and case studies.

What happens when you pair a romantic with a non-romantic? Where does the twain meet when you like to wow your lover with an original song and he thinks a bar of soap is a thoughtful gift? In his charming, often hilarious account of his decade-long relationship with his boyfriend (now husband), journalist David Valdes Greenwood sets the record straight on gay marriage, playfully disarming the arguments against it. Here are the highpoints (and some low points) that chart any good relationship: from the first blush of romance; to... read more

Finally--the book for every gay man's bedside table. At last Answers to the questions you're too embarrassed to ask--but always wanted to know Why does it hurt down there? Is it really safe to do that? What does it mean when something looks like this--and how do I make it go away? Chances are you never learned anything about gay intimacy from your parents, your school, or your family physician. Here, at last, is reliable, comprehensive information on a wide spectrum of gay medical concerns, written by an eminent surgeo... read more

'What's love got to do with it? Everything, according to Richard Isay's informed and illuminating look at the role of romance in modern gay life. I highly recommend this book for people of any generation and partnership status' - Dean H. Hamer, Ph.D., author of "The Science of Desire" and "The God Gene". 'Richard Isay offers something far better than simple bromides and false hope. In this book, he challenges us with a provocative, illuminating, and ultimately hopeful look at ourselves and explains how those of us who yearn to love... read more

Who is Mr. Right? And once you find him (and you will, according Dr. Kenneth George), how do you keep him? For countless gay men, desiring to join the 4 million other male couples in the United States in a stable and committed relationship, this question keeps them awake at night. For gay men in relationships, keeping their love strong, sexy, and alive, presents numerous challenges. Now, in one book, Dr. George approaches these issues in ways that may surprise you, but will also give you a new lease on romantic life. Mr. Right Is O... read more

A book about surviving your gay life in today's culture and, more importantly, how to create rewarding relationships and a strengthening inner life. "Everybody has a philosophy, in this ancient and noble sense of the word. But few writers have Mr. Brass's credentials. Author of numerous works of poetry and science fiction, he's also been involved with gay liberation and health institutions since their inception. So he knows a little something about survival, and it shows. Mr. Brass's lovely phrase for the special contributions w... read more

This book illuminates the unique needs of gay male couples in therapy and provides a practical framework for clinical intervention. The authors review the basic principles of structural family therapy and guide therapists in adapting treatment goals and interventions to better serve gay clients. Addressed are the universal issues faced by all couples in therapy, gay and straight, as well as the particular challenges gay men face in building nurturing, intimate relationships in a homophobic society. Extensive case examples and sessi... read more

Effective therapeutic self-help techniques for a straight mate's recovery. One of the most traumatic events that can happen in a marriage is discovering your mate is gay. When Your Spouse Comes Out is a comprehensive exploration of the trauma that provides practical steps that successful individuals have taken to keep this event from ruining their future. This guide offers solid therapeutic techniques for self-help and presents poignant true stories that illustrate that the damage is not irreparable. The book examines the vario... read more

After 30 mostly happy years of marriage, Carol Grever's husband told her that he is gay. As she discovered, the phenomenon is relatively common, because many gay men believe they are at economic or social risk if they don't marry. In My Husband Is Gay: A Woman's Survival Guide, Grever shares her story and those of 25 other women of varying ages and backgrounds. Although most of their marriages ended in divorce, some of those who divorced were successful in preserving a healthy friendship with their husbands. Grever provides pra... read more